The violence and abuse rooted in religion is a worldwide phenomenon that’s been evident throughout history. We see it in wars, inquisitions, crusades, and the enslavement of people. Recognizing how religion has been used to harm people and the world, how do we maintain faith and spiritual practice while honestly… Read More »Keep the Faith by Losing Your Religion
Follow your heart? That’s advice people often give. But many people don’t know what is right for them in a deep way. Often, layers of hurt, bad decisions, and social norms prevent us from understanding who we are at a heart level. How do we follow our hearts? Take a… Read More »Follow Your Heart! Is that Good Advice?
When people face difficult times in life, we often say, “It will get better.” Will it? What does it take to get better? Does time heal all wounds? When someone is caught in a cycle of bullying or abuse, how will it get better?
It’s the kind of story that’s something of an embarrassment to me. I’ve shared it with very few people. My only excuse for getting myself into the situation was that I was young and was naïve. I didn’t know that this kind of thing happened. About forty years ago, I… Read More »Spiritual Abuse and Healing
“That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” That’s what philosopher Fredrick Nietzsche wrote about 150 years ago. This sentiment is echoed in Kelley Clarkson’s hit song, “Stronger (What Doesn’t Kill You).” I recently spent time with a young woman. While she’s bright, professionally engaged, and living what many… Read More »If It Doesn’t Kill You It Makes You Stronger?